5 Ways To Get Radically Honest
I had a great idea for a business about 2 weeks ago. Checked the domain name and it was available. Quickly plotted out a no-fail traffic strategy in my mind. Did some brief checks on dropshipping and production of the physical goods and everything was A-OK. It looked golden.
Still, I decided to sleep on it. What looks like a stroke of genius at 11pm can, and often does, pale in interestingness as soon as the next day.
Next morning comes and I still really like the idea. But I didn’t go ahead with it (yet). Why?
To have a successful business, you’ve got to get radically, painfully honest with yourself.
And that means being 100% dead-on truthful about the current status of your projects and whether you can realistically take on additional projects.
Last week Lynn Terry wrote this about taking ONE site from start to profit:
I always recommend that you focus 100% on ONE site or project – all the way from start to profit. And then to maximum profit potential, even… Your website is not finished until you’ve targeted every keyword phrase related to your topic, and you have a Top 3 ranking for each of them.
Wowza! Lynn’s not messing around!
While I don’t necessarily advocate only working on ONE site at a time, the heart of the message I absolutely agree with, and that is….
RADICAL INTERNET MARKETING HONESTY
- If you’re about to start a new business project, you better be done with the ones already on your plate!
Interestingly enough, folks often consider themselves “done” with a site/project because they find it’s not profitable. They’re not ranking high enough quickly enough and jump to thinking something must be wrong with the (keyword research, backlinks, conversion, traffic volume, etc.) data.
We lie to ourselves. We ignore and hide parts of the truth. We don’t want to be the one responsible for shitty results. I think Seth calls it the “lizard brain.”
Fact is, most of the time, a lack of ranking, income, traffic etc. is directly related to our lack of actually being DONE with a project we once started with the best of intentions. We get bored. New ideas beckon to us. The work of content creation or link building gets tedious. So we lie in our own heads and say the work has been done.
It’s human nature, so we don’t need to get down on ourselves because of it. We just need to be aware, because once we’re aware of a habit or behavior, we can change it.
5 WAYS TO BE RADICALLY HONEST ABOUT YOUR IM BUSINESS
What does it mean to be “done” with a project? For those of us who build content / affiliate sites, here are some questions to ask yourself when you think you’re “done”:
- Did you do your keyword research? I mean really, really DO your keyword research. How competitive is your market? How many links, what PR, what types of linking domains do you need to beat your competition? How much traffic will you get at the #1 position for your top 5 keyphrases?
- Since you’ve got all the data to clobber your competition backlinks-wise, did you REALLY go out and get all those links? Do you have an internal linking plan as well? If you run your backlinks against your competition in Yahoo & Google, are you kicking the competition in the rear? Are the links you got really comparable (in PR, type of domains, variety of unique class C’s, hosts, registrars) to your competition? Is your anchor text comparably varied? Did you build links and are ranking for more than just your main KW phrase?
- Perhaps you’ve got your rank and your traffic but the site isn’t bringing in the kind of money you think you should be making. Have you tried different monetization methods (Adsense, affiliate offers, CPA offers, etc.)? Have you split-tested those different monetization methods against each other? Have you split-tested the size, color, placement of those monetization methods? This is how you maximize your revenue.
- Is your content crap? Really though, is it bad? Google announced on Friday that, “we’re evaluating multiple changes that should help drive spam levels even lower, including one change that primarily affects sites that copy others’ content and sites with low levels of original content.” If you’re running a pure autoblogging kind of set-up or other scraper site, you may be headed for a drop in rankings – or that could already be the reason you’re not getting the ranking you want. But even if you’re using original content, if visitors are hitting your site and they immediately think it sucks, they’re likely to hit the “Back” button instead of one of your monetization methods. Check your bounce rate – lower is better. Get real – is your content good enough to engage a real visitor?
- Are you building a list? Are you offering an incentive to encourage new subscribers to join? Have you split-tested opt-in boxes and call to action text? Do you have a follow up sequence in place for your list? Do you also broadcast to your list frequently to keep them coming back to your site or to introduce them to new products / services you have available?
Most of the time, there are still things to try before we have to turn in the towel, hang our heads and realize all this internet marketing nonsense was a waste of time.
You’re not done until the questions above are done.
But the good news on the flip side is, you haven’t failed until you’ve done all those things too.






Thank you for your attention…
Your post on Google’s plan to review classification of spam which include copying of contens from other websites draw my attention. I guess the announcement by Goggle on Friday has profound impact on those who make use of autoblogging tools to manage multiple, if not hundreds of auto blogs. Thus it is more important than ever to provide flesh quality contents besides content aggregation via pulling of RSS feeds from other sites. Great post..cheers!
I know at least for myself, I exhibit ADHD tendencies, which makes having multiple websites even worse. I tried to give each site a day of the week, and bounced back and forth, which did not work. I can not count the number of domain names I have registered, and then never did anything with them! Your post is dead-on, you have to get to a point where your site is “finished” and making money on auto-pilot. I do believe you can continue to build content through new pages and blog posts while working on other sites, but the major work needs to be done.
what about you do blog for me.
Hey Michelle, so much food for thought! Good job…
I completely agree with you but if I can read between the lines I also hear you saying that all of us (IM’ers with ADHD) will never really be able to do what you described. Sure we SHOULD do it but doing it is a completely different matter.
The only way I see this working is if we’re thinking in an outsourcing system right from the start so that we can drop the ball and let our employees/outsourcers run with it when we’re on to new things.
/Mikael
wow! that is a very involved blog post you have thier, and a marvelous insight into what is needed to succeed, and thank you for the heads up with the change from google
Thanks Michelle, for the food for thought, and kick in the butt.
Oh, and have noticed the number of ADHD readers you have?
LOL, I figured out I am ADD (no H, I can actually sit still) when my daughter was diagnosed years ago & I realized “HEY! I have those traits too! She got it from moi!” BUT I learned, apparently on my own to cope with it, and that involves getting & staying organized… with lists or whatever else helps (so thanks for yesterdays) Learning to live with it, and capitalizing on it make life interesting, and fun. I have found it makes me creative, both artistically & in ideas…
I am thoroughly enjoying your new posts… welcome back & looking forward to MORE!
This is powerful insight. However the concept goes against the grain of the entrepreneurial spirit , which has a strong drive to always be creating. Is there any room for balance? Probably not. Perhaps there is a 12 step program.
A great Monday morning inspiration. I like the “really really” part. And your 5 steps shed light on a few things I have been ignoring eg. bounce rates.
Rich Schefren talks about this in detail in his “Entrepreneurial Emergency” guide. It really changed my results for sure.
If you have project A, B, and C, working on all of them simultaneously leads to a higher probability of burnout from lack of income. Having tunnel vision and only focusing on completing project A only means you hit paydirt 3x faster.
@Robin: Of course there is room for balance. It becomes about timing when you choose to implement your new creation. As Tony Robbins said, “If all you do is innovate, the quality of your life actually goes down.” One must see their project through to completion to consider it a success, rather than just “good enough”.
I’m not okay with “good enough”, is anyone else?
I get at least 4-5 really good ideas every day for new websites but as you say here def. can’t take them ALL on…have any ideas for what to do with all of these ideas?
VERY good advice Michelle! Doing the opposite doesn’t work! I KNOW!
So I really haven’t failed. I just do to much at once. Now what to do with that focus and effort… so many ideas but what to focus on and achieve success… change a habit I guess… So, those that persevere even in the next 10yrs may just be left in the dirt again… or will they succeed?
Good stuff Michelle. I guess anyone who’s auto blooging on thier money site, deserves to dissappear from the rankings. Autoblog like a demon on your feeder sites – who cares if they rank, as long as the backlinks are indexed.
so there really is hope – i have not failed, anyway whats on TV… just kidding! great post as always!
Wow Michelle, I just read all off your post “5 Ways To Get Radically Honest,” and I actually read Lynns post “taking ONE site from start to profit” just yesterday and your post reads well together with Lynns. I’ll make sure I write those 5 points down but the best point in this post is at the very end where you said – “But the good news on the flip side is, you haven’t failed until you’ve done all those things too.” If one keeps that last pont inmind and a strong desire (to succeed on online when your just starting), then you can’t fail!
Patrick
http://www.patrickbarnaby.com
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Good Article Michelle. Between you and Lynn, the point is made!
Tim Veach
Great Information.Thanks
Ah Lynn and Michelle – 2 of my favorite butt-kickers! A timely post. Thank you
I still have Lynn’s post open for the other day. I have read it at least 3 times. It makes complete sense.. Thank you for adding your take and advice on the subject. Being honest with yourself doesn’t always come so easy. I think we feel like we are capable of doing all of these things at one time.. Yeah right..
I reading your posts & feel as if you are speaking to me personally. Thanks it all make sense.